Max Willi Fischer, Y/A Author...
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“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."
Colossians 4:6 NIV
It happens to the best of us. What starts as a harmless conversation quickly spirals out of control. Before you know it, a tornado of unintended words gathers momentum and whirls into a freefall. Maybe it was a casual disagreement, maybe it started as fun banter, maybe emotions hit their limit, or perhaps life simply veered in the wrong direction. Regardless, something hit a nerve root and the verbal pitchfork triggered mayhem.
Once angry words springboard off the tongue and through the lips, no amount of damage control can erase their harmful impact. None. When we allow the verbal pitchfork to take control, sadly, it can shred the most calloused heart and destroy the most vulnerable.
However, with God’s guidance, we can manage the intensity of those fiery words. We need only take a deep breath, say a silent prayer, and listen with our whole heart and mind for God’s wisdom. The Holy Spirit within will calm the chaos and triumph over that menacing pitchfork.
In the Bible (Matthew 26:69-75), Peter has his own issues containing his livid language. First off, he denies knowing Jesus, not once, not twice, but three times. Secondly, he even curses and swears while emphasizing his denial of our Lord. Whoa. The incident illustrates how Peter struggled with his words, especially under pressure or fear. However, after Jesus’ resurrection, Peter undergoes a transformation and becomes a prominent leader in the early Christian church and known for his preaching, teaching, and writings. Through Peter’s faithfulness to God and the guidance of the Holy Spirit, he learns to let his conversations be full of grace.
Beloved, the Lord desires to … “Let your conversation always be full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” (Colossians 4:6 NIV). Peter’s transformation illuminates the power of God’s grace in changing hearts and behaviors. The Almighty can do the same for us. Let’s strive to be better listeners during those stormy moments. Let’s reach out to the One who can calm the tornado and dull the pitchfork.
Heavenly Father,
I thank you for being my God, and as I reach out to You, I praise you for the Holy Spirit who lives within me and offers me wisdom to heed Your word. Lord, season my words with grace and bring understanding and enlightenment to those around me. You are in control of it all. May my words reflect Your love and guide others closer to You. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
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